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Retirement ‘on hold’ – Carers can get help from Harrogate charity

Director Chris Whiley

A carers’ director is urging older people who look after a relative or friend to speak out and get vital support, as a new report reveals older carers are putting retirement ‘on hold’.

Chris Whiley, Director of Carers’ Resource, an organisation with offices in Bradford, Craven and which gives tailored support to people who look after someone who has an illness, frailty, disability or addiction, says carers should make sure they get all the help they need.

Published today by national charity Carers Trust, ‘Retirement on Hold, Supporting Older Carers’, highlights the challenges older carers are facing.

It includes older people acting as ‘care coordinators’ to manage and find the right care and support for those they look after, causing stress and anxiety.

It also shows people at the age of retirement are having to take on caring roles, involving progressive conditions such as dementia, when they have their own age-related health conditions, such as arthritis.

Key findings of the Carers Trust report:


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Mrs Whiley said: It’s pretty harrowing to see these findings in black and white but it does reflect the experiences carers are telling us about on the ground.

Carers in their 60s and 70s are saying this is not what they expected their retirement to be like. They are caring for someone, often a husband or wife, who is becoming more and more dependent on them.

The issue is they want to look after their relative or spouse; it’s what they do as their wife or daughter, but it’s a relentless task and one many are doing alone.

It can be overwhelming with so many calls to make, systems to navigate and understand; all they want is for someone to help them through it. Carers should be applauded; we recognise it’s a really hard role and we’re here to help them on their journey.

They can have several appointments to get to every week; they have the extra demands of getting their cared for up and ready in the morning, and by the time they get out of the house they can be exhausted and frazzled.

The issue is they want to look after their relative or spouse; it’s what they do as their wife or daughter, but it’s a relentless task and one many are doing alone.

The report also highlights the need for a break was vital to a carer’s own health and wellbeing but many felt they were reluctant to take one unless their cared-for was given appropriate care.

Chris said: There are also a lot of emotions involved when caring, and one of them is guilt because carers feel they should be doing all the looking after, and also they don’t feel they can ask others to step in; becoming a carer has a massive impact on relationships.

for the future is also something many carers can overlook. At Carers’ Resource we can help with this by making sure carers have plans in place should anything happen to them.

The charity has a range of free services on offer to help carers get appropriate support with managing finances and benefits; finding suitable breaks; a wellbeing review of the carer’s needs; and runs various social groups and drop-ins.

We urge anyone who is looking after someone, or anyone who feels they may be a carer as their loved one is gradually becoming more dependent on them, to get in touch and we’ll do all we can to lighten the load,


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